learning how to forgive

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Comment by irma diaz on November 30, 2009 at 2:55am

HELLO I AM SAVE SO I THINK WHAT MAKE ME HAVE DOUGHT IS 2 YEARS ADO MY SON 38YEARS OLD CAME HOME DRUNK AND HE AND MYSELF GOT INTO A BIG HEATED FIGHT ..HE BEAT ME REALY BAD IJUST NEED TO KNOW HOW DO I FORGIVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART BUT IM HAVEING TROUBLE WITH FORGIVEING.....I PRAY TO GOD FOR DIRECTION CAUSE IM A MOTHER THAT VERY HURT.....HE GOT 5 YEARS THIS HAPPEN FEBUARY 13,2007 AND I FEEL LIKE I GOT LIFE SENTANCE....
THANK YOUALL FOR HEARING ME OUT...........
ILUHTTSDTTSEA.....IRMA,,

Comment by Alvin S. Foote on October 26, 2009 at 1:22pm

The bigest part about forgivness is forgiving yourself, once God forgive you and you forgive yourself then your on the road too recovery, this is what I believe.

Comment by Angie/Shinetoday on October 23, 2009 at 9:36pm

Amen! The Bible warns so sternly about the "root of bitterness" and not to let it take hold. So much so it says don't even let the sun go down with out forgiving. So many say I forgive you but then the very next day they still have anger and bitterness, it's a stronghold and yes, it can open a door to the demonic. I watch a woman going through exorcism that had a childhood of sexual abuse and let the root of bitterness get in. The exocist told her to repeat the words I forgive my abuser,,and nothing happened,,because she couldn't..it was just words. Then Bob Larson told her to tell God she wanted to forgive but she couldn't and to tell God she needed His help to forgive. That was all it took...years of anger and pain and hurt were all released and so were the demons possesing her and this woman had such a sense of peace and contentment..her first words she could speak were Jesus, yes Jesus. Its hard to understand how bad the demonic can drain a soul so badly, but when you see this kind of peace in them after an exorcism..it is like tons and tons of bricks have been lifted off their shoulder....it's like they are finally getting a chance to have a life..and one of peace.

Comment by Center Mark Ministries, Inc. on October 22, 2009 at 3:04am

AMEN!

The old adage is , "I will forgive you, but I won't forget!" This is where we fail in our forgiveness because if we are forgiven by God He casts our sins as far as the east is from the west right? He does not remember what it was we were forgiven for so that forgiveness is total....when we as humans recall or 'remember' what caused this un-forgiveness that also fuels the hurt all over again.....

Kate McVeigh had a great diddy that taught me the graciousness of total forgiveness it went like this:

"When someone hurts you, don't nurse it, don 't rehearse it, but curse it, disperse it and God will reverse it!"